Boosting Intimacy and Satisfaction with Sexual Toys and EnhancersSexual toys can be an excellent way to increase satisfaction or boost intimacy. Designed to be used alone or with a partner, these toys can really add a new dimension to your sexuality. In addition to toys, there is a wide variety of products ranging from oils and gels to rings and more that are designed to increase the duration of sex and heighten the strength of an orgasm as well.

The first group of toys and enhancers we will be discussing are masturbatory aids. While unfortunately still a socially taboo subject, masturbation is common, healthy, and as most of us know, quite pleasurable. Before looking into all of the tools to enhance masturbation, let’s take a look at the benefits of the act itself and why it is so pleasurable. Keep in mind as well that most doctors actually recommend masturbating as a way to stay healthy and happy.

There are numerous health benefits to masturbation. In addition to keeping you safe from pregnancy and STD’s, masturbation has many more surprising benefits. Masturbation can relieve headaches, pain (especially menstrual cramps), and stress as well as alleviate depression. This works because when you have an orgasm, your body releases endorphins, which reduce pain and cause a pleasurable feeling.

Masturbation also helps you to relax and is an excellent tool against insomnia. The running joke many people have about men falling asleep after sex is actually quite factual in that aspect, though the reasons are certainly distorted. If your partner falls asleep after sex, rather than being upset, feel proud. The release of built up tension as well as the release of hormones that give you a sense of well-being just make you tired. Whether from masturbating or from having sex with a partner, getting tired or falling asleep after sex is completely natural and a sign that you are doing something good for your body. For people who are looking to pleasure themselves, there are all sorts of toys out there. Vibrators are of course the most common sexual aid out there. Most women have at least heard of the Sex and the City episode where Charlotte buys a vibrator and subsequently has so much fun she refuses to leave her house.

There are also clitoral stimulators, which work to stimulate the clitoris by vibrating at different rates of speed. There are a number of different types of clitoral stimulator, from hand held and battery operated to large and plug-in. There are also hands-free clitoral stimulators that take the shape of a harness or G-string that can literally be worn anywhere. For many people, these are effective and erotic ways to have an orgasm at home without the need to use your hands, but for some, these products can satisfy the need for satisfaction and daring anywhere, from dinner to the office.

For men, there are products called masturbatory sleeves that can help masturbation to feel almost identical to intercourse. Slipped over the shaft of the penis, these sleeves are designed to mimic the feel of a vagina or anus and some even have vibration features for an even more powerful orgasm.

While not designed to turn you into a recluse, these toys are definitely designed to take you to new peaks in regards to pleasure. Masturbatory aids come in all shapes, colors, and sizes. From vibrators to clitoral stimulators to sleeves and more, there is something out there for everyone, from painfully shy to daring and adventurous.

When it comes to sexual toys, vibrators and other masturbatory aids are only the tip of the iceberg. There are literally hundreds, if not thousands of products out there, so there is truly something for everyone. There are products for men, for women, and for anyone.

One group of toys that appeals to both men and women is nipple toys. There are all sorts of products designed to arouse and excite the nipple. From gels that warm the nipple and add a slight tingle to clamps and jewelry that both look and feel erotic, there are all sorts of products available. Many people don’t know that the nipple is one of the most sensitive parts of the body on men as well as women.

The nipples are essentially extremely sensitive bundles of nerves, which makes them ideal for erotic play. Because many men have not had a lot of experience with nipple play, it is advised to be gentle at first, as you discover how sensitive his nipples are. Women generally have a better idea of the sensitivity of their nipples, as the breasts are one of the most common aspects of sexuality and sexual play for women.

Believe it or not, as many as twenty percent of women can have an orgasm from nipple play alone. Nipple stimulation is also highly recommended for women who can come close to climax but have trouble reaching it. The added stimulation can not only bring about orgasm, but make it stronger as well.

In addition to nipple toys and masturbatory enhancers, there are many more categories of sex toys and enhancers. Next are the anal toys. These products are designed to be used during sex or masturbation for added sensation, and most can be used by men or women to great effect.

Anal beads are strings of beads, usually made of plastic, that are removed typically during climax for added sensation. These beads come in different shapes, sizes, and lengths, and are quite common. Butt plugs, on the other hand, are generally uniform in shape and size, due to the need to prevent perforation of the lower bowel. Butt plugs are designed to be used during sex or to be left in for longer periods of time. These devices can offer a great deal of sexual pleasure, but should never be shared between multiple partners without proper cleaning or protection.

For men, there are also butt plugs and other anal devices that are designed to specifically stimulate the prostate. These devices can provide direct touch or even vibration to heighten arousal and strengthen orgasms. Men who use anal plugs that stimulate the prostate say that when leaving them in for periods of time they feel a mild but constant arousal that makes orgasms much more intense.

Anal play is very much a taboo subject in society, especially for heterosexual men. Experimenting in this area can be not only extremely pleasurable, but quite beneficial. Exploring this area of one’s sexual fantasies can help alleviate anxiety or shame in regards to sex, and increases intimacy greatly with any partner you choose to explore this avenue with.

In addition to vibrators and anal toys, there are other penetrative toys as well. Dildos are probably the most common of these toys. These toys come in all shapes and sizes. Some are shaped to look like animals or have only a non-distinct rod shape, while most are shaped and even colored to look like an actual penis.

There are numerous types of dildos. Many strap on to the user, through a harness or special underwear. Others are double-ended, allowing to either penetrate two people simultaneously or allowing a woman to be penetrated simultaneously in the vagina and anus. Some dildos also vibrate, adding another aspect to the pleasurable sensations to be had from these toys. There are also penis extenders for men that act much like dildos but attach to the end of a man’s penis to add length. These are of course for the pleasure of the partner and are usually held in place by a condom.

For women, there are also small balls known as Ben Wa balls. These are small weighted balls that give off a light vibration when moved around. These balls are typically held together by a string and are inserted into the vagina as a stimulator. In addition to being sexually stimulating, these balls are also recommended by doctors to help increase vaginal tightness and elasticity and to help with bladder control. Followers of Tantra also believe that these balls help you learn to master control and sensuality.

Outside of sex toys, there are numerous other products that also enhance sex and sensuality. From common items such as lubricants and oils to the more adventurous, such as swings and restraints, there are really no limits to how far you can expand your sexual horizons.

For the sensual people, common products are warming lotions and lubes and things like edible panties and body butter. These sorts of things are excellent for increasing intimacy and for making even a relationship you have had for years feel exciting and new. There are also pheromone massage oils and other products that contain either male or female sex hormones, which can greatly increase sex drive and desire.

For people looking to add more excitement but not ready for extreme sexual play, there are simple things, such as blindfolds or handcuffs. There are breakaway restraints that simulate bondage without actually forcing yourself or your partner to be tied up in case of panic. These types of restraints and bondage devices allow couples to experiment safely and without the need to be nervous. This can help you decide if these types of toys are right for you and your partner without pressure.

For the truly adventurous, there are swings, bondage and fetish gear, and much more. There really is something out there for everyone. Toys and enhancers need not be something you are shy or ashamed of, not only can they be fun, but they can be beneficial to your relationship as well.

Now that you know a little more about the types of toys and enhancers available, let’s take a brief look at why it might be a good idea to try them out. Most importantly is that sex is a big part of good physical and mental health. Stress can make us sick, and regular orgasms are actually one of the best ways to combat stress. Sex also helps with insomnia, pain, and much more.

Mentally, sex can help us fight depression and burn off anger and frustration. It causes a rush of endorphins, or chemicals responsible for pleasurable sensations. Believe it or not, there is science behind why makeup sex is so good. The pent up frustration you burn off makes the sex more lively and pleasurable, and the chemical releases afterward help you to resolve the issue and dispel your frustration. These medical facts alone should help to show you that the age old argument that sex is bad or taboo is fundamentally wrong.

Lots of couples find that after a while something just begins to fade in the sexual aspect of their relationship. Other people are exceptionally happy in relationships, but would like to try something new or spice things up. In either scenario, toys and enhancers are just the way to go. These products boost trust and intimacy while adding an air of raw passion and sensuality. They also take you to heights of pleasure you have likely never been before.

These toys are also excellent for single people. Whether you are someone with no time or desire for a relationship or you are just between partners, a masturbatory aid might be just what you need. It keeps you from getting stressed and repressed and keeps your life as filled with pleasure as it should be.

Last, keep in mind that asking your partner to use toys does not necessarily mean that you will end up tied up and gagged or anything of the sort. There are all sorts of enhancers for all sorts of people. While many people do enjoy leather and fetishism, many more people are completely satisfied simply using massage oils or lickable body butters. If you take the time to look at all of the products available, you will see that there is something for virtually everyone. The choice is truly up to you.