Prepare yourself For Self Improvement
“Do You Know What Makes You Tick?”
The following Are 10 questions you need ask to yourself before we begin our journey of self improvement: Prepare Yourself for Self-improvement Try to be everything you can be, but hey it’s not always so simple. I quite often feel somewhat happy and contented with my life as it is, however it is often quite hard to consider anything else when there are so many real issues to be
discussed. Of course I still aspire for a deeper and more meaningful life. So every day we find ourselves with problems being thrown at us.
Frankly none of this should even bother or hinder us when it comes to being all we can be. The aspirations we all had when we were kids should still continue to thrive within us; although these aspirations would be short lived we could and should still hold on to the dream. It is quite often said that you can’t teach old dog new tricks, what do you think?
1. What do you truly want?
This is the big question which has plagued all of us through the ages. There are so many things we would like to do with our lives but we have so little time to even think about them during the day.
Finding something that you are quite good at and have a strong interest in can help you to take that small step towards self improvement. Attentiveness is the key which will let you realize that it is worth it.
2. Should you really change?
Today’s younger generation have engaged in another level of redefining ’self’, or at least that’s what they will have us believe. Living amongst a huge army of teenage relatives has shown me that there are much worse things that they could have other than just acne or perhaps even promiscuity. So how does any of this fit into your lifestyle?
History has of course taught us one thing, and that is the life which we have already gone through and learned from. Try to make seventies style partying appealing to the younger generation, and dancing is of course part of partying. Watch how much they will applaud when you show
them how to really dance, then watch how they break their bones when they attempt to break dance.
3. Is there a bright side in all of this?
When we consider everything that is going on around us, it would appear that there is no room in our lives to even begin to consider that there is light at the end of the tunnel. We can of course still look at it as being something positive, which does not need too much scrutiny. And if there happens to be a train waiting for us at the end of the tunnel, then we should take it for a ride and see what it is that makes the world go round!
4. Are you comfortable with what you are doing?
There is always an easy way and a right way when you have to decide what goes with what, which
shoes goes with this dress, or which dress matches this purse, which tie goes with this shirt etc. You don’t have to be a genius to be able to see yourself as being someone unique, otherwise we would all be the same in everything we do. Variety as they say is the spice of life and brings with it some very interesting and exciting questions in which to experiment with.
5. Have you done enough for yourself?
Have you, or could there still be more you would like to do? Being discontented will bring contempt, not just for yourself but for others also, this can be quite dangerous if you allow it to come in large doses; however discontentment in small amounts can enable you to see and do things you could never have imagined doing before.
6. Are you happy at where you are today?
This is of course is an unfair question so let this question be an answer! You truly love being a good
and loving mother or father to your children, so if you take that up a notch! Your children will love you forever. The same thing applies to everyday life!
7. Are you appealing to the opposite sex?
Ok perhaps you don’t actually have the answer to this question; this does not mean that you can’t try
it. If it means giving yourself a complete makeover, perhaps change the way you wear your clothes, or change your whole wardrobe, or change your hairstyle, or even change your attitude towards other people, you must always bear in mind that it will always be for your own benefit.
8. How much could you have?
I suppose that in this case there can be no such thing as having too much or too little of something, however it has a lot more to do with how badly you really need it. I would love to have loads of money, “don’t we all I hear you say” there is no denying this, but the question is this, how hard are you willing to work for it?
9. What motivates you?
What motivates you? This is an answer you will have to find for yourself. You will find that there is a huge assortment of things which can make all of us happy; however when it comes to choosing one of these things, it will probably prove to be the hardest part. It is not as if you cannot get just one serving of your favourite food from a buffet and that’s it. You just have to try it little by little.
10. What is it that Really Makes You Tick?
Ok, what does really make you tick? You can truly be absolutely anything you ever wanted to be,
however the bitter realization of what you wish to attain makes things seem to difficult to even consider, means you will be giving up before you even start on your journey. You must always keep in mind that self-improvement is not only a physical or philosophical change in which you have to undergo, but it has to be something that you really want.
